Lynne "Lily" Buckus
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7/21/06 I am so sorry to discover that Lily passed away. When did she pass? I had the privilege of conversing with her via email and then by phone. She was so helpful in her emails, always taking the time to respond to my questions, so then, I was flabbergasted to discover when I spoke with her that she was suffering from such serious health problems - you would never guess because her positive energy and helpfulness were so free flowing! Wendy, I'm so sorry that you lost your mama and "best friend". My heart goes out to you and the rest of your family - she is such an irreplaceable loss. As I mentioned before, Wendy, you are always welcome to call us if you need a friend here in the valley, God bless you, Jenise in Mesa
7/21/06 I am so sorry to discover that Lily passed away. When did she pass? I had the privilege of conversing with her via email and then by phone. She was so helpful in her emails, always taking the time to respond to my questions, so then, I was flabbergasted to discover when I spoke with her that she was suffering from such serious health problems - you would never guess because her positive energy and helpfulness were so free flowing! Wendy, I'm so sorry that you lost your mama and "best friend". My heart goes out to you and the rest of your family - she is such an irreplaceable loss. As I mentioned before, Wendy, you are always welcome to call us if you need a friend here in the valley, God bless you, Jenise in Mesa
I MET LILY 2-3 TIMES AND ALWAYS THOUGHT SHE WAS SO NICE AND SO FRIENDLY AND SO HAPPY....I COULDNT FEEL ANY WORSE FOR THE FAMILY SHE COULD WRITE THE MOST WONDERFUL AD I USED TO ENJOY READING HERS ADS AGAIN MY HEART GOES OUT TO ALL THAT LOVED HER.....PAUL ARSENAULT
I MET LILY 2-3 TIMES AND ALWAYS THOUGHT SHE WAS SO NICE AND SO FRIENDLY AND SO HAPPY....I COULDNT FEEL ANY WORSE FOR THE FAMILY SHE COULD WRITE THE MOST WONDERFUL AD I USED TO ENJOY READING HERS ADS AGAIN MY HEART GOES OUT TO ALL THAT LOVED HER.....PAUL ARSENAULT
I met Lily only through e-mails and the telephone yet her warmth and sincerity came through as if she were standing next to me. I am so sorry to discover that she passed away so suddenly and at such a very young age. The world needed Lily to stay with us a lot longer. Wendy, to you and your siblings, we express our condolences. May you find comfort in your tears and strength in your memories. Pat from just outside Chicago
Dear Wendy: I am utterly shocked and saddened to hear of your loss. I felt an instant rapport with your Mom -- she always said she wished we lived more close by. She was a warm, wonderful and loving person -- with a marvelously wicked sense of humor! When we last spoke she had me laughing to the point of tears. Now, those tears are for her. My thoughts are with you. Barbara, Westchester, NY
I am deeply saddened to learn of the passing of this great person. Wendy delivered a wonderful item to use a couple of years ago and was awed by the tranquility of our home and the wild turkeys. Lily instilled the same tranquility to her customers. Peace in being personal. My wife and I will miss her. I, the wonderful conversations. In a blink of an eye those who are the best of humanity pass silently into the night. I will look anew at the that wonderful chicken bench with fond memories. Our warmest wishes to all her family and friends. She managed to make things brighter for us even in sunny California.
I purchased a bed from Lily about a year ago. She was taking care of an elderly parent at the time and we shared our experiences on this. She told me of her partner, and how you went about photographing the items. She was SO helpful and knowledgeable and patient. I have thought of her many times since, and always enjoyed reading her write-ups of furniture items. I will miss her. Jane
I purchased a bed from Lily about a year ago. She was taking care of an elderly parent at the time and we shared our experiences on this. She told me of her partner, and how you went about photographing the items. She was SO helpful and knowledgeable and patient. I have thought of her many times since, and always enjoyed reading her write-ups of furniture items. I will miss her. Jane
I am so saddened by the loss of Lily. Although we never met in person, having bought many gorgeous items on ebay, she and I had spoken many, many times, mostly about family and life. She had a glorious spirit, full of life and love and caring for others. She spoke so often about her kids and, having met Wendy several times, I know she was a wonderful mothers, as well. We had hoped to meet one another in person -- once on the phone with Lily, we just could not get off. So many ideas to share. What a loss to so many. Jodi
What a wonderful tribute. Thank you for making Lily real to me. Mike
What a wonderful tribute. Thank you for making Lily real to me. Mike
Thanks for setting up a site for her. Kyle
thanks for putting that photo album together. I miss her so much...Randy
thanks for putting that photo album together. I miss her so much...Randy
I never personally met Lilly but through email and using Wendy for transportation I felt that I had made a friend and liked her spirit and kind heart. I am sorry to hear of her passing. Randy Herrell Winchester, TN
I never personally met Lilly but through email and using Wendy for transportation I felt that I had made a friend and liked her spirit and kind heart. I am sorry to hear of her passing. Randy Herrell Winchester, TN
I always enjoyed looking at the NORWINDA antique furniture. I never could afford it, but it was in my favorite sellers list and I am truly saddened by your loss. I enjoyed reading the descriptions, I felt like I was reading an author's great works. Take care, Graceandbill on Ebay
Hi, I just found out and I was very sad to hear aboeut Lynne. She was the first person to help me on e-bay.I was looking for a bedroom set and she was the one who showed me how to get around e-bay.I have alway had you people as one of my favoriate sites .She will be missed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thankyou, Thankyou, for all the kind words you've all had to say! My special condolences to Kyle, and hope he gets back safely from Afghanistan. Some people are wondering exactly what happened to Lily and I wanted this site to be as positive as possible, but her friends should know what happened. In six short months Lily had a tough time, and we are hoping to find out more of why this happened so others might be spared. Late December of '05 Lily was diagnosed with partial kidney failure and multiple myeloma. Lily started her myeloma treatments and was very focused on getting better. Her dialysis although affected her heart, and she spent much of those next months in the Hospital because of that. By May '06 Lily had a deffibrillator and then a pacemaker implanted in her. This is basically when Lily started to be very depressed, and especially after her deffibrillator shocked her twice after another dialysis treatment. Two days later on May 26th early in the morning her heart stopped. She was in the Hospital at the time, and the Doctors said she went peacefully. Lily really loved children, and I know if anyone wanted to make a donation in her memory, Lily would like to see help go to any good Childrens Charity.Thankyou again, Elliott
Diane Fuller
To Wendy and her family my deepest sympathy. I always enjoyed doing business with and speaking with Lily, May God give you comfort...Dan White
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A great friend for many many years,,,, love Rory
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I had no idea. This woman helped me through my first Stickley purchase. What got me about the description of the rocking chair was the worn arms by the loving arms of a Grandpa... She relayed many funny stories such as "the ice cream sundae with walnuts..." If she told you this one you know what I'm talking about. I was honored to meet her daughter Wendy and her trusted companion, Dusty. Heaven is blest with this sweet spirit. ~Mary McCarthy~
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Although I never met her personally, I truly enjoyed watching and learning from her Ebay auctions. I had emailed her several times and always got a quick and kind response. I knew when we didn't see any auctions for a time that there had to be something wrong, but hoped that maybe she and family were taking a vacation. We were so sorry to her the news of her passing. It must be a comfort to know that people care and have you in their prayers. We will continue to watch and marvel at all the fine furniture that you have on Ebay. Janie.
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Dear Wendy and Family: I never had the chance to meet Lily in person, yet I considered her a friend - a very special one! She had the ability to make you feel you had known her for years, even tho' you'd just met. She must have been a wonderful addition to the lives of everyone around her! My heart goes out to all of you, (especially the furry ones..), and you will be in my prayers forever. Sincerely, Carole M. in California
I got a email just now from my favorite seller, Norwinda- I thought, good! Where has Lily been? She must have gone to the cape again and is back to business... Any warm glowing Mission oak pieces found for me to pretend I can afford? I clicked on the website to see what I might find.. I read about the incredibly described painted Italian beds. It made me smile. I thought I'd drop a line to Lily just to say hello, bravo, and does she also have a career writing fiction or something? Then I saw...remembering Lily, or something like that.. and I pretended for a minute it does not mean what I think that usually means. Lily is too kind, she finds such awesome things, her auctions & photos and descriptions are top notch. It hurt to not see the email lily@northwindantiques..I new it must be true... this person, Elliott must have a blow right now. Lily and I were not friends. But I did bid (unsuccessfully) on some Arts and Crafts pieces, I asked questions a couple of times, and I always read through what your auctions were. July '05- she said "she couldn't wait until August, we go to the cape every year.. warm regards.." I am so sorry for your loss. I wish you well. Best Regards, Laurie Ryan Saint Paul, MN
Dear Wendy & Family, Debbie and I would like to express our heart felt sympathy for your loss. Wendy, please let us know if there is anything we can do for you. You and your family are in our prayers. Debbie & Jack Cervini, Arlington, VT
I am so sorry to hear that your family lost this beautiful, beautiful lady. I, along with many others, enjoyed her imaginative written descriptions. Maybe Lily's spirit was just too spectacularly luminous to remain earthbound! It sounds like she already had one foot in heaven; and God called her home early to do some important work. My sincerest condolences. Jan in Orlando
I enjoyed your pictures and memories of Lily. Although I never knew her, I would have loved having her as a friend. The pictures brought tears to my eyes, but also smiles. She seems to have been a remarkable person. Betty Marion Arab, Alabama
Wow is seems like Lily was a great friend and a very Special Lady!
hi just came across the site and even tho i never met lily i felt like i should offer my support 2 the family. i know how hard it is 2 lose some1 so special but their memories and spirit will b wit u always and from the photos u seem 2 have some very special ones. take care,stay strong and god bless
Always will remember her thougtfulness and willinghness to share knowledge. A star shines tonight in the "Lily way."
I never knew this woman personally. I know her from this site. The site was done in such a loving, and lovely way to show what kind of person Lily was. My only regret is that I never had the chance to meet her in life.. Smokeysgirl2 Ebay Lorraine R......
So very sorry to learn of Lily's passing. What a wonderful person she was to deal with. She could write marvelous emails and made you feel like she had known you for years. Wendy...although I only met you once when you deliverd a Stickley chair to me in Irvine, CA, I could tell that you were just as friendly and genuine as your mother. May God hold you close in one arm while He hugs Lily with the other. Bob Himes
And a woman spoke, saying, "Tell us of Pain." And he said: Your pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding. Even as the stone of the fruit must break, that its heart may stand in the sun, so must you know pain. And could you keep your heart in wonder at the daily miracles of your life, your pain would not seem less wondrous than your joy; And you would accept the seasons of your heart, even as you have always accepted the seasons that pass over your fields. And you would watch with serenity through the winters of your grief. Much of your pain is self-chosen. It is the bitter potion by which the physician within you heals your sick self. Therefore trust the physician, and drink his remedy in silence and tranquillity: For his hand, though heavy and hard, is guided by the tender hand of the Unseen, And the cup he brings, though it burn your lips, has been fashioned of the clay which the Potter has moistened with His own sacred tears. Gilbran
Wendy, I am so very sorry to hear about the passing of your sweet mother. I never met her in person, but she was so much fun to converse with by e-mail. Her passion for her furniture and her love and pride when speaking about you, Wendy, is what I remember the most. I knew she was having health problems, and I thought about her often and was constantly suggesting information I had learned about alternative medicine. I was shocked to hear she had passed. Much love to you and the rest of your family, Wendy. Love and peace, Connie in Seattle area
Oh, good heavens, I am so saddened to hear about Lily's passing. My heartfelt prayers are with you and the rest of the family. This is a call out to Wendy, and I am thinking of you dear! Oh gosh, honey I am so sorry. I know how close you and your mom are, and I had no idea that your mom went home to God. You are welcome at my home Wendy anytime you are in Pennsylvania. We had some burnt dinners together, but our little doggies loved the left overs! and China misses Dusty. Wendy, your mom was so generous to allow me to buy my little granddaughter her grand and opulent black velvet and lace bed on a 'buy it now'. Thank goodness your mom allowed that, because if the buy it now were not available, i would never have been able to afford it in a bidding war! It just showed her loving generosity to reach out to the 'have nots'! ...and then you delivered it, and I met you, and we were instantly friends. Love you Wendy, and again, my heartfelt prayers and sympathy are with you and your family. Michele in Pennsylvania. call me dear when ever you want: 570 366-1257
Oh, good heavens, I am so saddened to hear about Lily's passing. My heartfelt prayers are with you and the rest of the family. This is a call out to Wendy, and I am thinking of you dear! Oh gosh, honey I am so sorry. I know how close you and your mom are, and I had no idea that your mom went home to God. You are welcome at my home Wendy anytime you are in Pennsylvania. We had some burnt dinners together, but our little doggies loved the left overs! and China misses Dusty. Wendy, your mom was so generous to allow me to buy my little granddaughter her grand and opulent black velvet and lace bed on a 'buy it now'. Thank goodness your mom allowed that, because if the buy it now were not available, i would never have been able to afford it in a bidding war! It just showed her loving generosity to reach out to the 'have nots'! ...and then you delivered it, and I met you, and we were instantly friends. Love you Wendy, and again, my heartfelt prayers and sympathy are with you and your family. Michele in Pennsylvania. call me dear when ever you want: 570 366-1257
I did not know Lily well, but the Ebay dealings that I had with her were always pleasant. She seemed like the type of person that was a friend from the start. May God Bless you all during this most difficult time. The loss of a mother, I know, is truly devastating.
I did not know Lily well, but the Ebay dealings that I had with her were always pleasant. She seemed like the type of person that was a friend from the start. May God Bless you all during this most difficult time. The loss of a mother, I know, is truly devastating.
I was in absolute shock to hear the news!! Lily was such a sweet woman. Always a pleasure to talk with and deal with!! One of my very favorite sellers on EBAY!!!Always the BEST stuff and BEST presentations!!!!!!Through her, I met Wendy,who has been the BEST delivery driver that I've ever used hands down!!!!!!!My heart goes out to the entire family(animals too) who will miss her dearly on this planet. I recently experienced another loss and in their religion,you didn't mourn. You instead celebrated having known that person here on Earth. So,I toast her life and her family knowing she will always be with them!! Harry in LA
I was in absolute shock to hear the news!! Lily was such a sweet woman. Always a pleasure to talk with and deal with!! One of my very favorite sellers on EBAY!!!Always the BEST stuff and BEST presentations!!!!!!Through her, I met Wendy,who has been the BEST delivery driver that I've ever used hands down!!!!!!!My heart goes out to the entire family(animals too) who will miss her dearly on this planet. I recently experienced another loss and in their religion,you didn't mourn. You instead celebrated having known that person here on Earth. So,I toast her life and her family knowing she will always be with them!! Harry in LA
Very wonerful tribute to Lily. She lives on in memories and new memories inspired by your site. What a wonderful gift to her. It is clear she enjoyed life and shared it with others in the photographic tribute to her. Sorry for your loss to your family. Warmest Regards, Harvey Webber
I never knew this lady but I can tell I missed out on one of life's blessings. This is an absolutely beautiful and thoughtful site to share and it has certainly enriched my day by stumbling across it. I will remember her loved ones in my thoughts and prayers.
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We enjoyed your spirit and are honored to have known you. We miss you and your memory will live on through this site and your many loving friends and family. Fondly, Bob and Joanne Swallow
What a beautiful tribute. Thank you for sharing Lilly with us all.
Very Sad Today after many months I went back to my ebay. I purchased a piece late last year and lily was like a friend immediately. I am so very sad. The world has lost a beautifull woman. Bob and Eva Christofano
You have done an excellent job of introducing Lily to those of us who never had the privledge of meeting her. You have allowed us to see every aspect of who she was as a woman and what she cared about in her life. Well done Elliot. Mary
This site was the nicest thing I`ve ever seen done for another human being. God Bless you all!! Jeff
Hi wendy and Elliot..i am only a recent customer to norwinda but was very moved by the loving tribute to Lily. I just met wendy and again I am so sorry for your loss. But you were great Wendy and I loved your dogs..and your mom sounds like she was a unique and amazing individual. But keep in touch and good luck with all those deliveries..and Elliot thanks again. You guys really are continuing Lily's legacy with antiques that are so special and unique best adrienne los angeles, CA
I just found out about Lily today and I am so sad! I was wondering where my favorite E-bay seller of all time was. I think of her every day as I appreciate the beautiful things that I bought from her and how much fun it was to have Wendy deliver to me all the way in California. The last item I bought was an amazing 1885 grandfather clock that is carved all over and I sleep in a wonderful bed..a painted cape cod set from Lily. She touched many lives with her wonderful taste, her terrific and so romantic descriptions and I am sad for all of you and for all of us. Rest in peace darling Lily. Love, Prudy Handelman. Santa Barbara
Lily and I spoke only once at length. It was time enough for me to understand what a wonderful person she is. I am reminded of Lily each time I read "we" in Elliott's descriptions. Lily is certainly alive in Elliott's heart and in all our memories. Bob
Lynne was quite an inspiration to me, and my "North Star" on ebay. Whenever I was at a loss for words, I would always pull up one of her auctions, and get instant inspiration! What will I do now without my cyber mentor? ~geckoubok
I had the opportunity to speak to Lily and eventually meet her daughter after ordering a piano and a toby cabinet. She was very kind and helpful on the phone during a very difficult time. She spoke lovingly about her family and was looking forward to spending time with them when we last spoke. Lily was a very special lady and so is her daughter. Our prayers are with your family. God Bless! The Hansons
Lily was a wonderful person to do business with. I bought a victorian sofa from her a few years ago and she was extremely nice and easy-going. I am saddened that she had an untimely passing.
I don't personally know anyone in your family but through your photos of Lily and her family I feel I know her and her loved ones a little. I would like to extend my sympathies to all those she loved and nutured and give many hugs and strength to go on stronger than ever to exhibit that fierce life force of Lily! Hugs to you, Keztrelle@sbcglobal.net
I'm sorry I never met Lily. I'm touched by this memorial. It made my evening to discover it. Thank you for sharing. Allyson
I didn't know Lily,but I want to be rememberd this way. We go thur our lifes day by day an know one remembers us.Only a few.( I will remember Lily) Robert Holley Sirrobertofh@aol.com
i am so sorry to hear about Lily.. I bought a cottage set from her 3 years ago and just remember what a lovely person she was ;-) it saddens me so much to learn she is no longer here.. i am so sorry... so sorry.
To one of the best on Ebay who I never had the pleasure to meet. God Bless and if heaven has an Ebay we know you are on top of the game. Till we meet our prayers and thoughts are with you. Joseph Bailey
Nice to see the story, I missed most of it. Paul Buckus Youngest Of 5 Son of Eddie & Anne Buckus.
I only met Lily over the internet and telephone last year making a purchase. The experience left me having to meet her and feeling I had known her for years. I can only imagine how people that did must feel at losing her. Sincerely , Larry Caldwell
I just need to thank every one of you leaving such touching messages! In some way Lily must be seeing this! She is very happy for all your love! Thankyou, E.M.
I never knew Lily ... I just happen to look at your page. She looks like a nice lady and I wish I had a chance to meet her. I know one thing, she was very special because reading everybody's comments, I can only imagine her happy-go-lucky nature and sweetness. I am sorry about your loss but admire your ongoing effort to keep Lily's memory alive. This is the best example of true love.
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Dear Wendy, I was so sorry to hear the sad news. I had no idea she was ill. It gave me great pleasure corresponding with Lily. We would create characters from another century and write to each other in their mannerisms. She was always the much adored queen and I was merely a subject...... a knight or peon or...... It was extremely difficult to keep up with her brilliance, but it was always fun and in good humor. The descriptions she gave to her auction items were both breathtaking and spellbinding. God Bless her and all the best to you, your relatives and close friends. I hope to see you soon. Lars Hanson
We were saddened to hear of Lily's passing. We have only good things to say about our business dealings with her. We now have some beautiful Victorian furniture thanks to her. George & Susan Yohe Nebraska City, NE ebay: geoyo
a great tribute. bless you all.love the burns's of kingston ontario, canada
What a beatiful tribute. I was just looking on ebay for fun and came upon this by accident. I just had a baby and named her Lily. I hope my Lily grows up to be as wonderful as your Lily. God bless you. Teri (Sacramanto,CA)
Hi Wendy and Elliott. I truly thought Lily would beat it. She sounded so positive. I met her on line and visited with her about the bar back we bought from her last year. What a hoot she was the few times I talked with her on the phone. I, like so many others, am sorry to hear she left us. But there are worse things than death. When my grand mother passed away I asked my Dad if he believed she was with Grandpa now? He replied he didn't know but when a good friend of his passed away, right before she died she said "Oh isn't it beautiful." I hung onto those words and believed she was somewhere better. It was I that was greedy and wanted more time with her. Bless you. Lynelle
So sorry about the loss! I bought a beautiful Mission Oak Pickled finish cabinet from you a couple years ago and I was eyeing the wicker morris chair when I noticed the pic of Lily. It was so nice to do business with her. LeeAnne Walker formerly of Durant, Oklahoma - now in Idabel, Oklahoma
Elliott, We finally have internet access now, and I have had a chance to look at the site you created. It is beautiful. I still cant believe that mom is gone. I miss her more and more every day. Although you described her very well through this website, no one will truly know how much of an amazing and unique woman she was unless they had the chance to be as close to her as we all did. Thank you for making the last few years of her life so happy. Ashley Buckus (daughter)
I never met Lily, but I had occasion to do business with her and we emailed back and forth. The last I heard from her she was speaking of her father living with her. I was very impressed with her friendliness; it felt like I had known her all my life. I met Wendy, however, and I can certainly see the resemblance. I'm sure Lily's kindness and friendliness live on in Wendy. Bobbie Park, Surrey, B.C., Canada
A beautiful site for such a special lady. Dee Dufour Exeter, NH
My name is Patsy Burke I live in FL. I think I would have like Lily as a friend . We share a lot of things Like Family,Thankgiving,Christmas, Friends & so much more . Thank You For Sharing Her Life . I also lost my Husband in Dec. 2004 Thank You again. Patsy
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i do not know lily but your tribute is heart warming and loving i hope to have people like you in my life im sorry for your loss but love shines through
Lawrence Amundson God bless
Memories are the salve that heal the pain. Sue Ellen Smith
I'm so sorry about your loss, she sounds like she was such a beautiful person. I know if we had ever met we would have instantly become friends! To be loved by others so much to keep this memory book means she lived a wonderful life. I once lost a family member also too young.....she also was a very special person. At her funeral, one of her six sm children said "god must of really needed her in heaven" Sincerly, mary
Peter Risatti
By chance I happened across this guest book...The pictures portray the spirit that was Lily, especially she with the sea gulls...There are no coincidences; Olgonquit is very special in our memories....Thank you for this uplifting tribute to this very special Lady Lily....
I once responded to a bogus second chance email for a piece of Ephraim pottery that I had missed out on and ended up emailing Lily by mistake. We had a few lovely converstions about what fate might have in store for us and about people who are brought together by chance. Lily seemed like such a charming woman and I am so very sorry to learn that I will never know what the fates might have had in store for us. My tiny little bit of knowledge of this woman tells me that she will never ever be forgotten. Please accept my most sincere condolences for the lose of Lynne "Lily" Buckus. Floyd Allan Elliot
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i AM A STRANGER IN CYBER SPACE...ANOTEHR ANTIQUE DEALER...WHO CAN FEEL YOUR LOVE AND FEEL YOUR PAIN...but I think maybe, unless I missed it, ou should write about her......tell more.
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hi nice site.
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People such as your self make a small portion of the world beautiful.
Thank you Lily
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Wonderful addition for your memories, touching, I am sure that Lily looks down and sees you all continuing with the fun that she helped nurture when with you all. I hope that even her absence carries a mystically array of power that carries you throughout the day even when you have not thought of her, she is watching over you all!
Chase Bandy in Los Angeles! ebay: 'Petrachella' (in memory of my father!)
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Lily sounds like a wonderful person, someone I could hang out with all day and have a ball . . . and learn a lot from too. What a cool site you have set up for her. May she rest in peace. Sincerely, Kathy Boynton in St. Ignace, Michigan
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I did not know you, I think I would like us to be friends...I wish I had a friend like you were to your friends... Mari/tata11
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Hi. I found your site very nice. thanks for it! good luck
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Lily has passed away to young.I will say some prayers for her family. sincerly, Jim,wisconsin
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I could only hope that when I have passed from this life, I will be as fondly remembered and genuinely missed as is Lily. She must have been a special, special lady. What a lovely tribute -
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While browsing for antiques within 200 mi. of my home the gorgeous oak bedroom set first caught my attention. Then as I scrolled down the page my natural curiousity took over to find out who drew the peach and why. 1954, the year I too was born, and I will take time to reflect on that I the days to come. I wish I could have met Lily, I know we would have been friends. Thank you for sharing her life and memories.
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Highly inspirational, the world would be a better place with many Lily's within. The passages were difficult to read due to script font.
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Elliott!!! What a wonderful wonderful expression of love for a wonderful human being!!
This is truely a healing medium!
Best to you!
Tess
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Hello There, I don't know Lily at all, but was looking at a miniature portraite that was for sale and came across some of her Art Work, and decided to have a closer look, I think her Art Work is Wonderful and she was extremely talented. I haven't looked at all of it, but what I've seen is a delight to look at, I'm sorry to hear she passed away so early in life, but can see from her writings that she certainly new how to live love enjoy and appreciate life to the fullest! What I have read and seen has given be inspiration, we should all live life to the fullest and be grateful for all we have in this wonderful adventure of a life time. Bless you Lilly and all of yours. Seashells_2000au
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Joy she gave, Joy she has found! from Dee Ann and Wheezer
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Its been over a year now, and I've been reflecting on some thoughts about "what is wrong with this country." That phrase was recently made famous at a presidential debate, and clearly so many are passionate about where we have steered wrong! I hope this message is read by someone it can help. The pragmatic realization now of Lily's untimely death, is for all the honest hard work she did her 50 years on Earth, resulted in her three children having their house taken because of our health industry. Ironic isn't it? Lily became a widow in 1999, she raised her children and sent one off to college. In Dec. of 2005 she was suddenly diagnosed with bone cancer and the beginings of kidney failure. Lily never smoked, took drugs, and had a cool glass of chardonnay with me maybe once a week! She did everything a good person is supposed to do to have a healthy life.
The first three months of her hospitalization were completely without insurance and her care reflected that. Her deceased husbands medicare finally kicked in and suddenly her care was increased greatly! Hope was in the air,....and expensive medications and procedures became commonplace. Even though we have since found out, there was no cure and it was just a matter of time, the health care industry sucked every penny that Lily ever had, and in five months from her diagnosis, Lily was no longer here. If the health care system had been honest about how advanced her situation was, she would have chosen not gone through all those incredibly painful procedures, the doctors claimed would help! Seeing someone so sweet in so much pain due to a Doctors opinion, is something I can never forget. The autopsy I had done was by the best in the business at Mass General. Lily had very little time,...yet this grand health-care system we have still found a way to profit from what little time she had left, and only left us with those horrible memories of physical pain and greed-inspired hope. Even with the 33% Medicare eventually footing the bill, her house that was completely paid for was sold to the highest bidder, and Lily's children have no physical memory to hold on to. This,....is whats wrong with America!
Elliott Morehardt
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I was a high school classmate and friend of Lynne at Westwood High School. I as so sad to hear that she passed away. She was a beautiful human being.
Susan Artemis (formerly Susan Preisler.)
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Thanks Elliott,
Kyle (still in Afghanistan)
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What a lovely tribute. My deepest sympathy...............
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I met Lilly through ebay. I was searching for a mantel aand I found a great one on her ebay store. I called and talked with Lilly about this mantel and discovered a person who was beautiful. She was grreat to talk to and we spoke of monty python movies and history and of course antiques. I purchased this mantel and drove to NH. to pick it up. There i met Lilly and Elliot both very helpful and friendly. My son and I spent time talking to Lilly and Elliot it was right around Halloween so we had fun talking about scary stuff. I wish to say that for the very breif time i spent talking to Lilly and actually in her company she was a wonderful person. A very genuine caring soul. Elliot I am sorry for your loss. Charles Antonino, owner of the best griffin mantel ever captured! thanks.
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Hi. I would like to know more about Lily. This is my first visit and I read every page. What happened to her?
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Very sorry for your loss. God Bless
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Dear Lily,
I wish I had known you and yet your spirit warms my heart today.
Ellen Black
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Thanks to your beautiful tribute to a loved one I feel as if I got a chance to know and love "your Lily" I see a woman who loved life as it radiated from her eyes and her smile. May your memories of her live on in your hearts and minds. Blessings and thank you for sharing, Kelly
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Elliott,
What you said about the health care industry is absolutly true, the vultures will take your last penny. I went through it with my father..who all of a sudden after being healthy for 64 years went for a check up and the doctors said he had a rare form of bone cancer and would be dead within a few months. This was a man that never had any illness, broken bones, or any other sickness other than a cold. The hospitals drained his insurances, bank accounts and everything he ever owned and he knew this before he died. I believ there are cures for many diseaes that they do not tell us, I feel it would be a great loss to the phrmacutical companies, hospitals, doctors, labs...so on and so forth. I believe the health care industry is just like any other business, like selling antiques, or cars. These doctors don't care about you, your wife or anyone but themselves. We're not living in Mayberry...they are in the business for the money. I hate hospitals..I can smell death the moment I walk into one, and I hate many doctors for their tatics and bedside manners. I feel nurses are the only true angels in this field. I'm sorry about your loss.
Anthony Valenti
FDNY
Chambers St. Station
New York, New York
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Lily,
You look like a precious young lady. I know you reside in heaven with Jesus Christ, what a wonderful Christmas you must be having.
Will meet you one day,
LaJeania Levey
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What a loving soul she appears to be by the words her loved ones speak.. I do hope she passed peacefully w/ such a loving family by her side when she closed her eyes for eternal rest, God Speed Sweet Lily.....
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I did not know "Lily" personally;but what a wonderful way to remember a LOVED ONE. She must have been a remarkable person. After reading thoughts and looking at the pictures in the Memory Book, I was touched to know "Lily" was loved so much.
Sincerly,
Barbara from Tennessee 2007-12-31
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Found this site by visiting Ebay. I didn't have the opportunity to meet Lily, but reading thoughts and seeing pictures, I will know her when I see her in Heaven. If I get there before you, I'll tell her of the glorious memorium.
Cheryl Mehaulic-West Virginia
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I did not know her, but I am saddened by her loss. My 40 year old niece died Jan 07 leaving three little girls. Losses are so heart wrenching when someone is so ALIVE in life.
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I don't know Lily. Was eBaying and came upon this.
But, dear Lily, you are in a better place. God blesses you.
trisha
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SHE WAS ONE OF THE GREATEST GALS AROUND "A LILY AMONG THE THORNS". SHE WILL BE SADLY MISSED, ONE OF YOUR GALPALS!
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Hi Elliot thanks for allowing me a glimpse into your precious Lily's life god Rest her soul. She is Beautiful
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How inspirational! Lily would have been so pleased with you for sharing...and what a lovely person she so obviously was. You were so gifted to have her in your lives. Deb
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Elliot,
I just stumbled onto this site while trying to keep myself occupied before bed. I decided to type mom's name into google and read some of the articles and such from her ebay days. I didn't realize that you still had a site up for her. Mother's day was sunday and I have to say it was even harder than last year. I can't possibly describe how much i miss her, or how often I think about her. The 2 year mark is coming up very soon and it feels like its only been 2 days. Thank you to everyone who took the time to write such beautiful things about my mother. She was truly an incredible person and a hero to me. I love you mom and I miss you more than you'll ever know.
Ashley
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Ashley, Your mother is a beautiful woman. She was amazing to you and your brothers and sister! She will be missed but never forgotten.
Keep your head up! She loved you so much and she always will! Happy memorial Day to you and your family. The page is amazing!
Love, Krystal Estey
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i was ashleys good friend back in epsom. her mom was the nicest mom and so down to earth she was always so easy to talk to and just a rally nice person all together. when I heard she passed I was shocked I will always remember her and their family! Loved em all!
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We purchased an arts & crafts china cabinet from North Winds several years ago, which Wendy delivered cheerfully and efficiently and which we have loved ever since. During that time we spoke with Lily on the phone about the transaction. We have just contacted North Winds again about another piece and learned of Lily's passing. We imagine it must be a great loss for all who knew her well; we knew her only from those phone calls and found her to be quite lovely, knowledgeable, and witty--and so a loss even for those of us who knew her only in such a context. It's rare in such a distanced professional transaction for either party to sense the humanity and individuality of the other; Lily exemplified that rarity. Sincerely, Joe & Lisa in North Carolina
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Lynne keeps coming back to me. I truly miss her. We did have our differances and I'm sorry for that. She will always be a part of me.
Kyle - Afghanistan
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I just happened on this site from one of your ebay listings.
Very touching. She seem(s) like an incredible person.
--JonS
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Although I will never know her she sounds like a wonderful, caring human being. Sadly there are too few of them in this world. I hope she is watching over your family. God Bless, Rebecca
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Lily is doing fine. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.
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I never knew Lily yet I feel as if I did from what everyone has written about her.
I could never express the sadness I feel for Lily's Family and friends. She is in a wonderful place. Your love for her will live on forever. May God Bless all who knew & loved Lily.
Sincerely,Gina,Durham,NH
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My heart goes out to you for your tremendous loss. You've created a beautiful tribute to Lily -- now, many people who weren't lucky enough to have known her can share in the warm glow of her memory. Also, it serves as an important reminder of how precious and fleeting our lives are -- unfortunately, it's very easy to lose sight of that which is most important in our fast-paced lives.
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Ashley,
I remember your mom as a trip to Cape Cod, letting us build a mattress fort in
the spare room, introducing me to jello cake and your stories of the plastic
barrett treasure hunts in the backyard! She was a wonderfully caring and
creative woman. I feel blessed to have known her.
Ginni
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